On Sunday, Sept. 7, the marquee at the Eglinton Grand theatre lit up for a one-night-only performance: the wedding of Abigail Whitney and Alex Norris, two years to the day after they met 鈥 in line at the 色色啦 International Film Festival.
The couple tied the knot in a ceremony styled like a film premiere, complete with red carpet, popcorn, a short film about their relationship, and an Oscars-style reception. The theme: 鈥淔all in love at the movies,鈥 a nod to the day it all began.
From rush line at TIFF to the altar
On Sept. 7, 2023, Whitney was standing in a TIFF rush line, hoping to get into a screening of that year鈥檚 short film selection. As she glanced at her phone, she noticed someone was looking at her.
鈥淚t was a stare unlike any other,鈥 says Whitney, a 色色啦-based theatre and film director. 鈥淗e looked at me, then looked away, and then he looked back again.鈥
The vintage-style marquee at 色色啦鈥檚 Eglinton Grand lit up for one night only on Sept. 7, announcing 鈥淎lex and Abigail 鈥 For One Night Only鈥 to celebrate their wedding.
Michelle Mengsu Chang 色色啦 StarThat person was Alex Norris, standing one spot ahead of her. A longtime TIFF attendee and former volunteer, Norris hadn鈥檛 even planned to attend that screening. But something made him change his mind.
鈥淪he was stunning, out-of-my-league,鈥 says Norris. So captivated, he made sure to sit in front of her so he wouldn’t be distracted during the film.
Whitney, curious but confused by his choice to sit in front of her after such obvious interest, happened to glance at his phone and noticed his background image: the Haitian flag.
Whitney鈥檚 mother is Haitian. The coincidence, paired with the lingering stare, felt like a sign.
鈥淚 remembered my dad telling me that you only meet your soulmate once in a lifetime,鈥 she says. As they left the theatre, she approached him and asked him if he was from Haiti.
Alex Norris kisses Abigail Whitney at the Eglinton Grand moments after their wedding ceremony on Sept. 7.
Michelle Mengsu Chang 色色啦 Star鈥淎s a matter of fact, I am,鈥 Norris told her. His mother is also Haitian 鈥 and, like Whitney鈥檚, had immigrated first to Montreal before settling in 色色啦. That moment sparked something between them.
He asked for her number, and invited her to see “American Fiction” the following day. Their first selfie was taken at that screening.
He proposed at the Banff Film Festival the following year.
A cinematic wedding
On Sept. 7, 2025, they were married in a venue that matched their story: the nearly-90-year-old Eglinton Grand, a restored Art Deco-era movie theatre in 色色啦.
The date was non-negotiable. Even after Whitney鈥檚 father died unexpectedly earlier this year, followed by her honorary godfather, they didn鈥檛 change it.
Guests signed a 2023 TIFF program used as the guestbook at Abigail Whitney and Alex Norris鈥檚 wedding at the Eglinton Grand.
Michelle Mengsu Chang 色色啦 Star鈥淚 wasn鈥檛 sure聽if we were going to move forward with the wedding or not,鈥 says Whitney. But Norris reminded her the next Sunday Sept. 7 wouldn鈥檛 come around for six more years. 鈥淲e knew for certain that we wanted it to be on the day we met,” she says. “We were two shooting stars, and then Sept. 7 was the Big Bang, the day that we merged.鈥
The wedding was theatrical in every detail. Invitations resembled TIFF tickets. The dress code was red (for red carpet), silver (for the silver screen), and gold (for Hollywood glamour). Guests arrived to see a vintage-style marquee that read, 鈥淎lex and Abigail 鈥 For One Night Only.鈥 A red carpet, faux paparazzi, and a 鈥渞eporter鈥 doing guest interviews completed the scene.
Before the ceremony, the couple screened a short film they created using archival footage and interviews to tell their love story.
Norris wore a red-accented Gatsby-style three-piece suit and walked down the aisle with his mother. Whitney, ever the director, staged her entrance with theatrical flair: red curtains parted like a stage show as Hans Zimmer鈥檚 “Time” played. She walked down the aisle with her mother.
“Everything else that was happening was shut out, and I was just focusing on her,鈥 says Norris of that moment. 鈥淲hen she was given away, and I gave her mom a kiss,聽that鈥檚 the moment I will always remember.鈥
For Whitney, everything was 鈥渄reamlike.鈥
The newlyweds鈥 custom movie poster featured Abigail Whitney and Alex Norris surrounded by friends and family 鈥 complete with credits and the tagline: 鈥淲ritten by God. Rated PG-13. Presented in Panavision.
Michelle Mengsu Chang 色色啦 StarThe reception unfolded like a Hollywood-style awards show, complete with an Oscars-style host 鈥 Louco St. Fleur, an actor Whitney directed in a recent production of “The Noose” 鈥 who pointed out guests in an opening monologue.
鈥淚 wanted him to do what they do to celebrities, like call out Timothee Chalamet or Leonardo DiCaprio in the audience,鈥 she says. Instead, he pointed out family members and long-time friends 鈥 like a teen Whitney used to babysit 鈥 and shared playful anecdotes.
They handed out custom awards: Lifetime Achievement for Whitney鈥檚 mother, Champion Award for Norris鈥 mom, and Above and Beyond for Whitney鈥檚 eldest sister. Each recipient gave a speech, and just like at the Oscars, music played if they ran long.
鈥淚t was perfect,鈥 says Whitney.
Guests signed the guestbook 鈥 a 2023 TIFF program 鈥 and received a movie poster featuring the couple surrounded by the people who helped shape their story. The poster even had credits.
鈥淲e said, 鈥楾he story was written by God.鈥 It鈥檚 PG-13, and it鈥檚 presented to you in Panavision.鈥
And even amid wedding prep, the couple still managed to catch a few TIFF screenings this year.
鈥淚 wanted to be in the mindset that I was in when I met Abigail,鈥 says Norris. 鈥淚t was the mindset of possibility.鈥
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